The technology and methodology for assisting gay males to become biological
parents has made great strides in the past decade. Based in part on innovative
legal and medical parenting arrangements facilitated by the experts at The
Fertility Institutes, gay parenthood has become an achievable and affordable
option for most men interested in beginning or expanding a family.
With offices in Los Angeles, California, Las Vegas, Nevada as well as an
upcoming office in New York City, the Fertility Institutes are one of the
world's largest providers of fertility services to the gay community. In this
article, we will detail for you the many aspects involved in successfully
becoming a parent utilizing the services of:
Fertility specialists at The Fertility Institutes
Egg donors to provide donated eggs (oocytes)
Gestational surrogates to carry the pregnancy resulting from the fertilization of the donated eggs with sperm from the male
Attorneys to prepare the necessary and critical paperwork to assure a safe and happy outcome.
To facilitate your understanding of the complex arrangements that must take
place in order to assure a successful egg donor-surrogacy cycle, we divide the
process into tier levels. While each level is as important as the next, such a
division helps clarify the process and make it easy to understand how we proceed
efficiently through the arrangements that will make your dream of parenthood a
reality:
TIER I: SELECTION OF A FERTILITY CENTER
While various arrangements are made by those seeking egg donors and surrogates at various
centers, at The Fertility Institutes, with nearly three decades of experience with
arrangements for gay parents, we have found the most efficient and least stress inducing
arrangements are those in which we, at the Center assist you with ALL of the necessary
details in arranging your treatment cycle. While nearly all competing centers utilize
outside egg donor and surrogacy agencies, as well as outside psychologists and attorneys, at
The Fertility Institutes, we prefer to keep the majority of the process internal. While we
certainly can work with those that have located their egg donor and or surrogate
independently, we have found that by allowing our physicians to become involved in the
screening process of egg donors and surrogates, you are assured a more thorough evaluation
and screening than that routinely provided by outside sources. We are very selective in our
choice of outside agencies, preferring to work with those that allow the screening process
details to be ordered and specified by us. We also serve as patient advocates, your
advocates as we are often able to reign in the runaway fees demanded by some agencies and
their donors or surrogates.
The early selection of a Center to assist with your plans is crucial to allowing the process
that will lead you to parenthood to proceed. As soon as you indicate to us your desire to
proceed, we will request that one or two semen specimens be provided. These specimens will
undergo a complete evaluation and, if suitable, will be frozen and placed into a mandatory 6
month quarantine. It is due to the 6 month quarantine time lag that we encourage men to be
decisive in deciding to proceed. The sperm quarantine is required by us in accordance with
the suggestions of various infectious disease and tissue transplantation agencies and
references to decrease substantially the possibility of the transmission of infectious
agents to recipients (surrogates) or the pregnancy. Because all subsequent treatment
arrangements will need to await completion of the quarantine, this is a vital first step in
the process. At the time the specimens are obtained, you (the sperm donor) will be asked to
undertake infectious disease blood testing that will include HIV (AIDS) testing, Hepatitis B
and C, Syphilis, and HIV I and II testing. You, in most instances also be required to be tested for the
cystic fibrosis carrier state, chlamydia, mycoplasma, CMV and perhaps other genetic screening tests depending upon your
own personal history. All of this is done to assure the best and safest chances for a
healthy pregnancy outcome.
TIER II: SELECTION OF AN EGG DONOR
At the time of you first visit with us, you will be given an opportunity to review the
selection of egg donors available at that time. This is done so that you may get a feel for
the high quality of the young women available. At this point, it is too early to make an
actual selection of a donor, as the donors you will see will be actively available and many
will have been selected by others before your quarantine period has finished.
At the end of the six month sperm quarantine, some of these same donors may still
be available, and many other new donors will also have become qualified for donation.
Approximately four months after you place the sperm into quarantine, you will be asked to
contact us so that we may begin the arrangements to match you with your surrogate. With just
two months remaining at that time before your sperm completes the six month
quarantine and is cleared for use, we will begin the process of arranging the introduction
to you of eligible surrogates.
TIER III: SELECTION OF A SURROGATE
We will begin the surrogate match process by providing you details of the surrogates that we
have available for match as your date comes due. Approximately 40 to 50 percent of
surrogates we interview are willing to carry a pregnancy for gay males. You will not have to
worry about this, as any and all surrogates that we present to you will have indicated their
willingness to carry for gay or single males. Once you express interest in a particular
surrogate from the verbal description and details of her history that we present you, we can
arrange for you to meet her and perhaps a second alternate surrogate at your convenience. Our
surrogate "match" rate with gay and single males is approximately 97%. This means that 97%
of the time, once each meets the other, both the surrogate and the father(s) to be agree to
work together. If the surrogate you choose has been recruited directly by our program (about
30% of all surrogates), we will put you in contact with the surrogacy attorneys that will
begin drafting the contract that will guide us through the conduct of your surrogacy cycle.
If the surrogate is from one of our affiliated agencies, we will put you in contact with the
agency facilitator who will provide you the details of interfacing with the agency.
TIER IV: LEGAL WORK AND THE ATTORNEYS
Once the above processes are complete, we will then turn the case over to the surrogate
attorneys who will begin processing the surrogacy contract on your behalf. Your interface with the
attorney(s) may involve a combination of telephone consultations and personal visits. The
attorneys will serve as your legal consultants and will advise you concerning the wide range
of issues that are involved in the drafting of a surrogacy agreement that will protect the
interests of all involved. Your attorney will negotiate with the surrogate concerning those
issues that need to be detailed in the agreement. Issues such as the number of embryos to be
transferred, multiple birth, the choice of Obstetricians, insurance availability and
coverage and birth certificate details will be gone over in detail with you. Providing the
attorney with your thoughts, wishes and desires concerning these and many other questions
will facilitate the drafting of your contract. Your attorney will consult with your proposed
surrogate as well, assuring that her expectations are addressed and dealt with in the
wording of your agreement. Once you are satisfied with the contract, it will be presented
to your surrogate who will be asked to review the proposal with her own, independent legal
counsel. Once all parties are in agreement and the contract is consummated, we can proceed
quickly with the arrangements to begin the treatment cycle. Contracts may take from three to
seven weeks to draft, depending upon a multitude of factors that may include the State or
country of residence of the potential parents, individual preferences concerning details of
how the embryos will be handled, insurance and employment issues and more.
Once we know that a surrogate has been chosen, we can present to you the egg donors that are
available for selection. We maintain an extensive listing of donors. Most of our donors are
recruited though our own in-house program, allowing us to carry out a quite detailed screening
process on them. We can also facilitate your selection of a donor from an outside agency. We
insist that donors from outside agencies also go through our screening protocol for your
safety.
Well aware of the fact that many of our patients travel to us from distant locations, we try
everything in our power to facilitate productivity in trips made to our office. As the sperm quarantine
nears an end, we like to get you back, and in one trip: meet the surrogate candidate(s),
provide you a selection of egg donors, and allow you to meet with the surrogacy attorney.
Once all of this has been accomplished, we await the completion of the surrogacy agreement
by your attorney. Remember that we start this process about two months in advance of the
sperm quarantine completion, so that by the time the sperm becomes available, all of the
subjects to be involved are in place and all of the paperwork may be complete or near
completion. A final check is carried out to assure that all FDA required infectious disease
screening is complete, all paperwork is in order and all participants have been provided all
of the information regarding the services about to be carried out. Informed consent is
obtained form all parties, and the treatment course begins.
Your Prospects for Success at The Fertility Institutes
Choosing the Fertility Institutes to assist you in your pursuit of pregnancy provides you the
services and expertise of a Center staffed by some of the world's most experienced and accomplished
experts in surrogacy and egg donation. The Fertility Institutes have been providing advanced
reproductive services to both heterosexual and homosexual couples for nearly three decades. Our
Center was the third program in the United States to achieve successful pregnancy with in vitro
fertilization, and one of the first programs worldwide to achieve successful pregnancy with a gay
couple, an egg donor and a gestational surrogate. Our affiliated attorneys were responsible for
arguing the first, precedent setting California Supreme Court case that established gestational
surrogacy arrangements as a court recognized entity that would be enforced and protected by legal
recourse.
In short, we feel that you cannot make a wiser choice than to allow The Fertility Institutes to
direct the care of your egg donor, your surrogate and yourself or you and your partner. While
pregnancy rates achieved will vary slightly based on various parameters, our success rates have
consistently remained n the top 5% of surrogacy programs worldwide for nearly two decades. In
general, well over half and nearly two thirds of our treatment cycles with egg donors and surrogates result in successful
pregnancies on the first or second attempt. By the completion of two treatment cycles, in excess of 75% of gay
couples have achieved a pregnancy.
At the Fertility Institutes, we have been providing fertility services to singles and couples of all
sexual orientations for decades. We pride ourselves on our nondiscriminatory approach to the goal of
pregnancy. Our words are backed by our actions and our track record of success with many, many gay couples and single men..
All necessary services to achieve a successful pregnancy with the use of an egg donor and/or
surrogate are provided in-house by a full staff of skilled professionals. From a discussion of your
chances for success to sperm collection and quarantine to the provision of donors and surrogates to
the vital, required legal arrangements and contracts, you may look to our Center to coordinate all of
the details for you.
Please feel free to call us toll free from anywhere in the U.S. at 800-222-2802 or if
calling internationally, at 818-728-4600. You may also feel free to email us at
TZFertility@aol.com for any additional information you may
require. Additional general information on our gestational surrogacy program
may be obtained on this site.
A SPECIAL NOTE CONCERNING SPERM QUARANTINE REQUIREMENTS: THE MANDATORY 6 MONTH SPERM QUARANTINE REQUIRED
IN OUR PROGRAM IS BASED UPON RECOMMENDATIONS AND FEDERAL LAW ARISING FROM FROM THE UNITED STATES CENTERS FOR DISEASE CONTROL, THE UNITED STATES
ASSOCIATION OF TISSUE BANKS, THE UNITED STATES FOOD AND DRUG ADMINISTRATION AND THE DEPARTMENT OF HEALTH SERVICES
OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA. WE HAVE LEARNED THAT A FEW COMPETING SURROGACY PROGRAMS HAVE BEEN BY-PASSING CURRENT
MEDICAL RECOMMENDATIONS FOR QUARANTINE BY DESIGNATING SURROGATE MOTHERS AS "KNOWN AND DESIGNATED" RECIPIENTS AND EGG
DONORS AS "DESIGNATED OR (PREVIOUSLY KNOWN)" DONORS FOR GAY MALE COUPLES. WHILE SUCH ERRONEOUS DESIGNATIONS MAY TECHNICALLY
ELIMINATE THE SPERM QUARANTINE REQUIREMENTS, THE IMPROPER TERMINOLOGY USED MAY NEGATE THROUGH ILLEGALITY THE VALIDITY OF ANY CONTRACT ENTERED INTO
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to reference the FEDERAL LAWS CONCERNING THESE MATTERS, MAY THREATEN THE HEALTH AND WELL BEING OF THE BABY-TO-BE AS WELL AS THE SURROGATE AND MAY IN FACT VIOLATE
BOTH STATE AND FEDERAL LAWS. POTENTIAL FATHERS ARE WELL ADVISED TO CONSULT AN ATTORNEY AND TO QUESTION ANY AGENCY INDICATING THAT A QUARANTINE IS NOT REQUIRED
CONCERNING THESE MATTERS. CONCERN SHOULD ARISE IN ANY INSTANCE WHERE A BENDING OF THE RULES OR THE IGNORANCE OF PROTOCOLS AND SAFETY STANDARDS HAS BEEN EMPLOYED
TO ASSURE THAT THE DETAILED HEALTH SCREENING STUDIES OF EGG DONORS AND SURROGATES HAVE NOT SIMILARLY BEEN COMPROMISED
THREATENING THE SAFETY AND CHANCES FOR SUCCESS OF YOUR ENTIRE PROCEDURE!
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